Help with Jealousy in Derby
Having been in practice for in excess of 16 years I’ve provided help with Jealousy in Derby over that period. If you’re at the sharp end of your partners jealousy – particularly if you’ve done nothing to bring out that reaction in them it can be hard to deal with. You start avoiding situations in which that upset has arisen in the past, socialising particularly.
If you’re the one that gets jealous, in your more rational moments – you understand it’s irrational but somehow you just cant help yourself…particularly if you’ve had a drink. It’s somehow something that’s within you -but beyond your control.
Jealousy – Why ?
So you realise its putting extreme strain on your relationship – but you still continue with the behaviour. When we care intensely about someone – that fear of losing them can at time become overwhelming. When providing help with jealousy in Derby one of the things I try to put across is to understand is that these insecurities are often fueled by events from the past – whether childhood or as an adult. Events such as a partner’s infidelity or even a parent’s can have such a devastating ‘imprint’ on our subconscious minds.
The way forward
Clearly without talking to you it’s hard to say exactly what we would do. But when I provide help with jealousy in Derby – typically it takes 5/6 sessions (ideally weekly). Each session lasts an hour, cost wise these are £60.00 per session. Call it an investment in your future if you like. The fact is, if you allow the behaviour to continue, even if your current relationship fails your insecurities then simply transfer onto your next partner. As I said, an investment in your future. As a qualified Hypnotherapist, Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Stress Management Consultant I will use all of these techniques to help you let go of the originating cause(s) and challenge those destructive behaviours. Will you have to put in effort on your part ? Yes you will….. but if you have the expectation that you’ll improve – then you will.
What Next ?
- Have a look through my main website www.alexanderpractice.co.uk
- Contact me. Everything is in total confidence.
- I offer a free consultation which enables me to build up an overall picture of you and discuss the best way forward. Clearly it allows you to meet me, to ask any questions you may have and feel comfortable with me and what I have to say. You’re welcome to come on your own or with your partner.
Geoffrey Schofield D.CBT D.Hyp
1 Vernon St, Derby. DE1 1FR
Tel. 07582 865 265